Identify You | Trauma, Emotional Pain, Shame, Confidence, God’s Plan, Affirmations, Journal Prompts
Top 5% Globally Ranked Podcast for Christian Women Healing from Emotional Trauma
Have you ever felt like your past disqualified you from purpose?
Are you smiling on the outside, but silently suffocating under shame, rejection, or unhealed trauma?
Do you know all the scriptures but still struggle to believe God really sees you—flawed, fragile, and still worthy?
If you whispered “yes,” sis… you’re in the right place.
This podcast will help you heal from trauma, break free from shame, and rediscover your identity in Christ, giving you the clarity and confidence to walk in purpose.
I am Shakera, widowed mother of two, Best-Selling Author, Transformation Speaker, and Christian Life Coach. For 14 years, I carried the weight of shame from childhood trauma and deep personal loss.
I tried avoiding my past because I thought it disqualified me and I needed to prove my worth.
I finally realized that God couldn’t heal what I didn’t reveal and if I wanted to move from brokenness to wholeness, I needed to identify who I was in Christ Jesus.
I went on a healing journey to face my truth and recover what trauma tried to steal. I developed spiritually, emotionally, and intentionally so I could show up confidently and build a Kingdom legacy. Now, I’m ready to help you heal, grow, and glow…
If your heart is craving a clear, faith-filled roadmap from Broken 2 Whole — made for the Christian woman who refuses to stay stuck…
✨ To recover what trauma tried to steal…
✨ To reclaim your voice and God-given identity…
✨ To renew your faith, mind, and emotions…
✨ To rise boldly into the woman He created you to be…
This podcast is for you!
So grab your journal, favorite pen and a heart ready to receive because we’re about to dig in.
Episodes
Wednesday Nov 12, 2025
113 | Shame Can’t Steal My Gratitude | Confidence After Emotional Pain
Wednesday Nov 12, 2025
Wednesday Nov 12, 2025
Shame says, “You don’t deserve to be thankful.” But gratitude? It silences that lie.
In this healing episode, I’m diving into how gratitude becomes a weapon when shame tries to steal your joy, your voice, and your confidence. If you’ve been battling emotional pain, silent shame, or self-doubt—even while trying to trust God—this is your moment to reclaim peace.
You’ll learn why gratitude and shame can’t coexist, and how practicing thankfulness helps retrain your heart to receive love again, without guilt or striving.
✨ Inside this episode:
• How gratitude restores emotional confidence
• Why you can stop rehearsing regret and start walking in joy
• Using gratitude to confront shame and the enemy’s accusations
• A faith-filled reminder that you don’t have to be perfect to be worthy of peace
🎧 You’ll also receive an affirmation to anchor your identity and a journal prompt to help you thank God—even for the parts that still ache.
Sis, you’re not too broken to be grateful. You’re still worthy of joy.
Ready to go deeper?
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Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
112 | Why Thank God for Trauma? | Healing, Gratitude & God’s Plan
Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Gratitude doesn’t ignore what broke you—it honors the One who rebuilt you.
In this vulnerable episode, I’m opening up about how trauma became the very soil where trust in God took root. We often think we can only thank God after we’ve healed… but what if gratitude is part of the healing?
If you’ve wrestled with why God allowed certain pain or wondered how to find peace with your past, this episode is a gentle invitation to reflect without regret—and to discover purpose in the places that once brought you shame.
✨ Inside this episode:
• What it really means to “thank God in all things”
• How pain became a pathway to deeper faith
• Why reflection is more powerful than resentment
• How to move from surviving trauma to seeing purpose in it
🎧 I’ll also share an affirmation to anchor your healing and a journal prompt to help you grow in gratitude—even in the hard places.
Your trauma didn’t disqualify you—it prepared you. Let’s thank God for the healing in the hurt.
Ready to go deeper?
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Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
111 | Trauma Isn’t Your Identity: Confidence to Walk According to God’s Plan
Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
You don’t have to figure it all out.
In this gentle yet powerful episode, I’m sharing how trauma taught me to strive—to perform, protect, and make things happen. But God? He invited me into rest. Into trust. Into a deeper confidence that isn’t rooted in my ability, but in His.
If shame, silence, or fear have made you doubt God’s promises, this conversation will help you lay down survival mode and rise in Kingdom confidence. Your trauma isn’t your identity—and your story isn’t over.
✨ Inside this episode:
• What trauma teaches us about control—and how God undoes that lie
• The beauty of surrendering your strength for His wisdom
• Why divine femininity is rooted in rest, not performance
• How to walk in your calling without striving for it
🎧 Plus, I’ll share a powerful affirmation to declare over your identity and a journal prompt to help you receive instead of hustle.
You’re not who pain tried to make you. You’re who God created you to be.
Ready to go deeper?
💛 Become a Faith Slayer Insider
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Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
110 | Afraid to Be Seen? Confidence & Authenticity in Jesus
Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
You prayed for freedom… now it’s time to live it.
In this episode, I’m helping you walk out your freedom with boldness—no more hiding behind masks, shame, or fear of what people might think. You’ve been healed, sis. Now it’s time to show up fully as the woman God created you to be.
We’re talking real confidence, authentic identity, and how to stop shrinking when God is calling you to shine.
Inside this episode:
✨ The connection between shame and shrinking
✨ What true authenticity in Christ looks like
✨ How to stop fearing visibility and start owning your story
✨ Confidence-building steps that help you live free out loud
🎧 Plus: I’ll share an affirmation to declare over your confidence and a journal prompt to help you reflect and walk this out with boldness.
You don’t have to hide anymore. It’s safe to be seen when your identity is rooted in Jesus.
Ready to go deeper?
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Wednesday Oct 15, 2025
109 | Freedom From Shame: Confidence After Trauma Takes Work
Wednesday Oct 15, 2025
Wednesday Oct 15, 2025
You want to be confident. You want to walk boldly in your identity. But the truth is—confidence after trauma doesn’t come easy. Shame lingers. Doubt creeps in. And healing? It takes real work.
In this episode, I’m walking with you through the journey of rebuilding confidence after experiencing trauma and emotional pain. Whether it was childhood wounds, church hurt, abuse, or rejection—this conversation is for the woman who’s tired of pretending she’s okay and is ready to heal for real.
Inside this episode, I’ll share:
💥 Why shame is a confidence killer—and how to break its hold
💥 How to start rebuilding your identity after trauma
💥 The truth about confidence in Christ (not confidence in perfection)
💥 Faith-based strategies to help you walk boldly—even when you don’t feel ready
🎧 I’ll also give you a powerful affirmation to declare over your healing and a journal prompt to help you reflect deeper and walk it out.
You’re not disqualified. You’re being refined. Let’s break free together.
Ready to go deeper?
💛 Become a Faith Slayer Insider
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Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
108 | Can God Redeem Shame and Trauma? Finding Confidence in Christ
Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
After having an abortion at 14, I carried the shame of that decision like a secret chain. For years, I wondered: Can God really redeem this? Could He still use me?
Maybe you’ve asked yourself similar questions.
In this episode, I’m sharing how the truth of God’s Word broke the lies I believed about shame, trauma, and being “too far gone.” I want to show you that your past doesn’t disqualify you—it positions you for purpose.
You’ll hear:
✨ How God redeems broken places and restores identity
✨ The truth about shame, healing, and spiritual confidence
✨ Scriptures that will anchor your faith when emotions try to lie
✨ Why God can use even that part of your story for His glory
🎧 And as always, I’ll give you a powerful affirmation to declare over yourself and a journal prompt to help you walk through the layers of shame and step boldly into healing.
God is not ashamed of your story—He wants to redeem it.
Ready to go deeper?
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Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
107 | Still Hiding Behind Shame? Power to Finally Break Free
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
For years, I said I was healed… but I was still hiding behind shame.
Shame from choices I made, things I never told anyone, and pain I tried to pretend wasn’t there.
In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of carrying silent shame after having an abortion at 14—and how the love of Jesus gave me the power to finally break free.
If you’ve ever thought:
“God forgave me, but I can’t forgive myself.”
“I don’t deserve to be used by God.”
“What if people knew what I’ve really done?”
…then sis, this one is for you.
Inside the episode, I’ll walk you through:
✨ The truth about shame and how it shows up spiritually
✨ What God really says about your past (and your future)
✨ Why shame can’t survive in the presence of truth
✨ How to step into freedom, identity, and purpose—without pretending
🎧 Plus, I’ll give you an affirmation to declare over yourself and a journal prompt to walk through with God so you can begin breaking free from shame and walking in wholeness.
Let’s heal—for real. You’re not hiding anymore.
Ready to go deeper?
💛 Become a Faith Slayer Insider
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Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
106 | When God Feels Silent: Confidence in Learning to Hear His Voice Again
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Have you ever prayed… and heard nothing? Like you’re showing up, staying faithful, doing the work—and Heaven is just quiet?
This episode is for the woman who’s walking through the wilderness—where things feel dry, direction feels unclear, and God’s voice feels distant. I know what it’s like to crave a word from the Lord and wonder, “God, did I miss You? Are You still with me?”
But what I’ve learned is this: sometimes, God speaks the loudest in silence. Sometimes, He’s not punishing you—He’s positioning you. He’s training your ears, quieting the noise, and teaching you to hear Him in a new way.
In this episode, I’ll walk you through what the wilderness really is, how biblical heroes navigated their silent seasons, and how you can anchor your faith when clarity hasn’t come yet.
📓 I’ll also give you a journal prompt to help you recognize the whispers you’ve been missing—and find wisdom in what feels like stillness.
Ready to go deeper?
💛Join me inside the HEAL, GROW, GLOW Bootcamp: iamshakeratv.com/bootcamp
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