Identify You | Trauma, Emotional Pain, Shame, Confidence, God’s Plan, Affirmations, Journal Prompts

104 | You’re Not in Control—and That’s a Good Thing: Wisdom, Surrender & the Healing You’ve Been Blocking

I used to believe that if I could just manage everything perfectly: my emotions, my kids, my goals, then healing would come. But God had to show me: healing doesn’t flow from control, it flows from surrender.
In this episode, I’m getting real about the exhausting cycle of trying to fix what only God can restore. We’ll talk about the kind of wisdom it takes to loosen your grip and truly trust Him even when your heart still aches and the situation still looks broken.
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or like you’re failing because you can’t fix it all…this conversation is for you. I’ll walk you through how I learned to release control, how God met me in that place, and how you can partner with Him in the healing process.
🎧 Plus, I’m sharing a journal prompt and reflection to help you get honest about what you need to let go of, so you can finally breathe, heal, and rest in God’s hands.
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103 | Self-Worth Feels Shaky as a Christian Woman? 3 Ways to Confidently Restore Your Identity in Christ

Have you ever wondered why your confidence feels shaky—even though you love God, read your Bible, and pray? In this episode, I’m getting real about the hidden battles Christian women face when it comes to self-worth and identity.
I’ll share how trauma, comparison, and performance pressure can quietly chip away at your confidence—and how I’ve personally had to confront those lies in my own life.
Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode:
✨ Why self-worth as a Christian woman often feels fragile (and how the enemy uses it to keep you stuck)
✨ 3 practical, faith-filled ways to restore your identity in Christ
✨ Scriptures and affirmations you can declare daily to walk in confidence and clarity
Sis, your worth was never meant to be earned—it was established before you were even formed. It’s time to stop living in insecurity and start walking boldly in who God says you are.
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102 | You’re Not Damaged Goods: Find Your Confidence in God’s Plan After Shame

Have you ever felt like your past mistakes disqualified you from being used by God? Like no matter how much you try, shame keeps whispering that you’re not enough, not worthy, not lovable? In this episode, I’m sharing a part of my story I once thought I’d never speak out loud—my abortion at 14—and how God met me in the middle of that shame and said, “Shakera, speak.”
We’re diving deep into how shame distorts your identity, how your past doesn’t disqualify you but prepares you, and why your worth is received, not earned. If you’ve been hiding, striving, or second-guessing your value, this conversation is for you.
We’re going to break shame off your life and help you reclaim your identity in Christ—because you are not damaged goods. You are deeply loved, chosen, and still called.
Plus, I’ll tell you how to join the waitlist for the Heal, Grow, Glow Bootcamp, where we go even deeper into emotional healing, identity, and purpose.
Let’s do this healing work together.
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101 | Struggling with burnout? Why Slowing Down Builds CONFIDENCE in Christ + Clarity

Are you afraid that slowing down means falling behind? Are you exhausted from doing all the things—yet still feeling empty, burned out, and unsure of your purpose?
In this episode, I’m sharing why slowing down is not a setback, but a setup. Discover how dialing back actually strengthens your confidence in Christ, deepens your healing journey, and brings fresh clarity in your purpose.
Dialing back is not a setback—it’s God’s strategy to build you deeper, not just wider.
If you’ve been feeling the pressure to perform, produce, and keep pushing—even while you’re running on empty—this episode will help you breathe again. Through Ecclesiastes 3:1 and Isaiah 40:31, we’ll unpack what it means to discern your season, release performance, and embrace God’s pace without fear of losing momentum.You’ll learn:✨ How to discern what truly deserves your “yes”✨ Why the quiet seasons are not wasted but essential for growth✨ How to trade performance for presence and align with God’s strategy✨ The cost of resisting the pivot God is calling you intoThis isn’t about doing more—it’s about becoming more. It’s about trusting that slowing down creates space for God to move, fortify your roots, and prepare you for sustainable purpose.
Ready to go deeper?
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100 | Feeling Tired of God’s Call? 3 Biblical Ways to Endure Purpose and Rebuild Confidence in Christ

Are you feeling the weight of God’s call on your life? Maybe you’ve said “yes” to your purpose, but the journey feels heavy—lonely nights, unanswered prayers, and the temptation to quit.
Purpose isn’t just about saying yes—it’s about staying yes. In this milestone 100th episode, I’m opening up about the seasons when God’s call felt overwhelming, the spiritual warfare that came with obedience, and the lessons I learned about endurance.
If you’re tempted to quit, weary from the wait, or questioning whether your purpose is worth the pain, this episode is for you.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
🌱 Why purpose requires perseverance (and what happens when you quit too soon)
💔 The cost of not enduring when trials hit and faith feels heavy
🔑 3 biblical + practical tools to help you keep going when you want to give up
🙌🏾 How to rest, recommit, and rebuild your confidence in Christ daily
Your purpose is worth the pain—don’t give up now.
💥 And don’t forget to enter the Faith Slayer Inner Circle Giveaway—details are inside the episode!
Let’s move from what if… to what’s next.
Ready to go deeper?
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99 | What If Your Setback Is a Setup? Finding Clarity, Confidence, and Healing Through God’s Plan

Have you ever felt God tugging you in a direction you didn’t plan for? Maybe the job you thought would satisfy you left you empty, or the relationship you built your identity on crumbled.
In this episode, I’m sharing my personal story of how God used unexpected pivots—through loss, motherhood, and ministry—to reveal my true calling. Purpose isn’t always found in a straight line—it’s often revealed in the pivot.
If you’ve been stuck in “what was” and afraid to step into “what’s next,” this conversation will help you recognize holy shifts, release control, and respond with obedience.
Through my personal testimony of loss, grief, and transformation, you’ll discover how to let go of control, release shame, and embrace God’s redirection with confidence in Christ.
Listen in as we explore:
How to recognize when God is calling you to pivot.
Why surrendering control opens the door to clarity + healing.
The cost of ignoring God’s nudges and staying stuck in cycles.
Practical steps to walk in obedience even when the path feels uncertain.
If you’ve been wrestling with fear, confusion, or an identity crisis, this episode will help you see your pivot as preparation, not punishment.
✨ Journal prompts + affirmations included to help you root your confidence in Christ and boldly embrace your next season.
💥 And don’t forget to enter the Faith Slayer Inner Circle Giveaway—details are inside the episode!
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98 | 3 Ways to Stop Overthinking & Have Confidence After Trauma

Sis, how many times have you whispered “what if I had…?” replaying the past like it’ll change the future?
I’ve been there. I know what it feels like to be stuck between guilt, regret, and fear of what’s next.
But let me tell you something: “what if” is the language of fear—“what now” is the language of faith.
In this episode, I’m showing you how to silence shame, stop the spiraling, and finally move forward.
You’ll learn:
🧠 How to shift from fear-based thinking to faith-filled action
🔥 3 Purpose Practices to help you move boldly in Christ
🛑 Why holding on to “what if” is costing you your calling
I’m also sharing raw pieces of my own journey—moments when I had to surrender my past and trust God’s plan, even when I didn’t feel ready. Because clarity doesn’t always come first—obedience does.
If you’ve been battling trauma responses, shame, or self-doubt… this is your sign to trade “what if” for what’s next and walk confidently in the purpose God placed in you.
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97 | How to Discover God’s Purpose | 3 Daily Habits That Change Everything

Want to know how to discover God’s purpose for your life? In this video, I share 3 powerful daily habits that will help you find clarity, direction, and confidence in your divine assignment.
These spiritual practices — prayer, journaling, and stillness — will help you hear God’s voice clearly and step into the purpose He designed just for you.
✨ What you’ll learn in this video:
How prayer positions you for divine direction
Why journaling reveals hidden patterns and desires
The power of stillness and meditation to connect with God
How to realign your daily life with God’s plan
If you’ve been feeling stuck, confused, or overwhelmed, this message will equip you to stop striving and start walking boldly in God’s purpose.
Ready to grow and glow? Let’s heal, grow, and glow together.💛 Join the Heal, Grow, Glow Bootcamp: https://iamshakeratv.com/bootcamp
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