Identify You | Trauma, Emotional Pain, Shame, Confidence, God’s Plan, Affirmations, Journal Prompts

108 | Can God Redeem Shame and Trauma? Finding Confidence in Christ

After having an abortion at 14, I carried the shame of that decision like a secret chain. For years, I wondered: Can God really redeem this? Could He still use me?
Maybe you’ve asked yourself similar questions.
In this episode, I’m sharing how the truth of God’s Word broke the lies I believed about shame, trauma, and being “too far gone.” I want to show you that your past doesn’t disqualify you—it positions you for purpose.
You’ll hear:
✨ How God redeems broken places and restores identity
✨ The truth about shame, healing, and spiritual confidence
✨ Scriptures that will anchor your faith when emotions try to lie
✨ Why God can use even that part of your story for His glory
🎧 And as always, I’ll give you a powerful affirmation to declare over yourself and a journal prompt to help you walk through the layers of shame and step boldly into healing.
God is not ashamed of your story—He wants to redeem it.
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107 | Still Hiding Behind Shame? Power to Finally Break Free

For years, I said I was healed… but I was still hiding behind shame.
Shame from choices I made, things I never told anyone, and pain I tried to pretend wasn’t there.
In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of carrying silent shame after having an abortion at 14—and how the love of Jesus gave me the power to finally break free.
If you’ve ever thought:
“God forgave me, but I can’t forgive myself.”
“I don’t deserve to be used by God.”
“What if people knew what I’ve really done?”
…then sis, this one is for you.
Inside the episode, I’ll walk you through:
✨ The truth about shame and how it shows up spiritually
✨ What God really says about your past (and your future)
✨ Why shame can’t survive in the presence of truth
✨ How to step into freedom, identity, and purpose—without pretending
🎧 Plus, I’ll give you an affirmation to declare over yourself and a journal prompt to walk through with God so you can begin breaking free from shame and walking in wholeness.
Let’s heal—for real. You’re not hiding anymore.
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106 | When God Feels Silent: Confidence in Learning to Hear His Voice Again

Have you ever prayed… and heard nothing? Like you’re showing up, staying faithful, doing the work—and Heaven is just quiet?
This episode is for the woman who’s walking through the wilderness—where things feel dry, direction feels unclear, and God’s voice feels distant. I know what it’s like to crave a word from the Lord and wonder, “God, did I miss You? Are You still with me?”
But what I’ve learned is this: sometimes, God speaks the loudest in silence. Sometimes, He’s not punishing you—He’s positioning you. He’s training your ears, quieting the noise, and teaching you to hear Him in a new way.
In this episode, I’ll walk you through what the wilderness really is, how biblical heroes navigated their silent seasons, and how you can anchor your faith when clarity hasn’t come yet.
📓 I’ll also give you a journal prompt to help you recognize the whispers you’ve been missing—and find wisdom in what feels like stillness.
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105 | Stop Calling It Loyalty When It’s Really Trauma Bonding

Whew...this one is personal. I know what it’s like to stay in relationships longer than I should have, hoping they’d change, thinking if I prayed harder, loved better, or kept quiet, maybe it would get better. But wisdom doesn’t always say “stay and fight”—sometimes, wisdom says walk away.
In this episode, I’m sharing what God taught me about releasing relationships that were hurting more than healing. We’re talking about emotional manipulation, guilt, soul ties, and the myth that walking away means you’re giving up.
I want to talk to the woman who’s tired of second-guessing herself, who’s questioning whether God is disappointed in her for finally choosing peace. Sis, He’s not. He’s proud of you for listening to His whispers.
💔 Tune in to hear how I found freedom, how you can heal too, and what it truly means to walk away—not in fear, but in faith.
You don’t have to stay stuck in cycles that suffocate your soul. Let’s break free, together.
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104 | You’re Not in Control—and That’s a Good Thing: Wisdom, Surrender & the Healing You’ve Been Blocking

I used to believe that if I could just manage everything perfectly: my emotions, my kids, my goals, then healing would come. But God had to show me: healing doesn’t flow from control, it flows from surrender.
In this episode, I’m getting real about the exhausting cycle of trying to fix what only God can restore. We’ll talk about the kind of wisdom it takes to loosen your grip and truly trust Him even when your heart still aches and the situation still looks broken.
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or like you’re failing because you can’t fix it all…this conversation is for you. I’ll walk you through how I learned to release control, how God met me in that place, and how you can partner with Him in the healing process.
🎧 Plus, I’m sharing a journal prompt and reflection to help you get honest about what you need to let go of, so you can finally breathe, heal, and rest in God’s hands.
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103 | Self-Worth Feels Shaky as a Christian Woman? 3 Ways to Confidently Restore Your Identity in Christ

Have you ever wondered why your confidence feels shaky—even though you love God, read your Bible, and pray? In this episode, I’m getting real about the hidden battles Christian women face when it comes to self-worth and identity.
I’ll share how trauma, comparison, and performance pressure can quietly chip away at your confidence—and how I’ve personally had to confront those lies in my own life.
Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode:
✨ Why self-worth as a Christian woman often feels fragile (and how the enemy uses it to keep you stuck)
✨ 3 practical, faith-filled ways to restore your identity in Christ
✨ Scriptures and affirmations you can declare daily to walk in confidence and clarity
Sis, your worth was never meant to be earned—it was established before you were even formed. It’s time to stop living in insecurity and start walking boldly in who God says you are.
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102 | You’re Not Damaged Goods: Find Your Confidence in God’s Plan After Shame

Have you ever felt like your past mistakes disqualified you from being used by God? Like no matter how much you try, shame keeps whispering that you’re not enough, not worthy, not lovable? In this episode, I’m sharing a part of my story I once thought I’d never speak out loud—my abortion at 14—and how God met me in the middle of that shame and said, “Shakera, speak.”
We’re diving deep into how shame distorts your identity, how your past doesn’t disqualify you but prepares you, and why your worth is received, not earned. If you’ve been hiding, striving, or second-guessing your value, this conversation is for you.
We’re going to break shame off your life and help you reclaim your identity in Christ—because you are not damaged goods. You are deeply loved, chosen, and still called.
Plus, I’ll tell you how to join the waitlist for the Heal, Grow, Glow Bootcamp, where we go even deeper into emotional healing, identity, and purpose.
Let’s do this healing work together.
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101 | Struggling with burnout? Why Slowing Down Builds CONFIDENCE in Christ + Clarity

Are you afraid that slowing down means falling behind? Are you exhausted from doing all the things—yet still feeling empty, burned out, and unsure of your purpose?
In this episode, I’m sharing why slowing down is not a setback, but a setup. Discover how dialing back actually strengthens your confidence in Christ, deepens your healing journey, and brings fresh clarity in your purpose.
Dialing back is not a setback—it’s God’s strategy to build you deeper, not just wider.
If you’ve been feeling the pressure to perform, produce, and keep pushing—even while you’re running on empty—this episode will help you breathe again. Through Ecclesiastes 3:1 and Isaiah 40:31, we’ll unpack what it means to discern your season, release performance, and embrace God’s pace without fear of losing momentum.You’ll learn:✨ How to discern what truly deserves your “yes”✨ Why the quiet seasons are not wasted but essential for growth✨ How to trade performance for presence and align with God’s strategy✨ The cost of resisting the pivot God is calling you intoThis isn’t about doing more—it’s about becoming more. It’s about trusting that slowing down creates space for God to move, fortify your roots, and prepare you for sustainable purpose.
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