Identify You | Trauma, Emotional Pain, Shame, Confidence, God’s Plan, Affirmations, Journal Prompts
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Have you ever felt like your past disqualified you from purpose?
Are you smiling on the outside, but silently suffocating under shame, rejection, or unhealed trauma?
Do you know all the scriptures but still struggle to believe God really sees you—flawed, fragile, and still worthy?
If you whispered “yes,” sis… you’re in the right place.
This podcast will help you heal from trauma, break free from shame, and rediscover your identity in Christ, giving you the clarity and confidence to walk in purpose.
I am Shakera, widowed mother of two, Best-Selling Author, Transformation Speaker, and Christian Life Coach. For 14 years, I carried the weight of shame from childhood trauma and deep personal loss.
I tried avoiding my past because I thought it disqualified me and I needed to prove my worth.
I finally realized that God couldn’t heal what I didn’t reveal and if I wanted to move from brokenness to wholeness, I needed to identify who I was in Christ Jesus.
I went on a healing journey to face my truth and recover what trauma tried to steal. I developed spiritually, emotionally, and intentionally so I could show up confidently and build a Kingdom legacy. Now, I’m ready to help you heal, grow, and glow…
If your heart is craving a clear, faith-filled roadmap from Broken 2 Whole — made for the Christian woman who refuses to stay stuck…
✨ To recover what trauma tried to steal…
✨ To reclaim your voice and God-given identity…
✨ To renew your faith, mind, and emotions…
✨ To rise boldly into the woman He created you to be…
This podcast is for you!
So grab your journal, favorite pen and a heart ready to receive because we’re about to dig in.
Episodes
Monday Jan 13, 2025
67 | Healing Mother Wounds | Mom Let's Talk
Monday Jan 13, 2025
Monday Jan 13, 2025
In this vulnerable Mom Let’s Talk episode of the Identify You Podcast, we’re addressing a topic many women silently carry—mother wounds. Whether you’ve experienced emotional neglect, unmet expectations, or generational patterns of pain, this conversation offers grace, healing, and truth.
Shakera opens up about her personal mother-daughter journey, sharing how God walked her through forgiveness, grief, and the emotional work of breaking cycles without dishonoring legacy.
Inside this episode:
✨ How to recognize the signs and root causes of mother wounds
✨ The role of forgiveness (even when you don’t get an apology)
✨ Practical steps to begin healing without guilt
✨ How to set boundaries while still honoring your mother
✨ Biblical encouragement to reclaim your peace and identity
💛 If you’ve ever whispered, “But she’s my mom…” while carrying invisible pain—this episode is for you. With God, healing is possible—even here.
Monday Jan 06, 2025
66 | The Birth of Shakera | Mom Let’s Talk
Monday Jan 06, 2025
Monday Jan 06, 2025
In this powerful episode of Mom Let’s Talk on the Identify You Podcast, we dive into “The Birth of Shakera”—a candid conversation about overcoming rejection, discovering purpose, and embracing identity through faith. I share my personal story of growing up with childhood struggles, grappling with feelings of rejection, and navigating complex family relationships.
This episode offers a heartfelt glimpse into how God’s love transformed my pain into purpose. If you’ve ever struggled to feel seen or valued, this message will remind you that you are fearfully and wonderfully made in God’s image.
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Tuesday Dec 31, 2024
Tuesday Dec 31, 2024
Whew… 2024. What a year.
In this episode, I’m sitting down to reflect on a year that stretched me, grew me, and showed me just how faithful God really is. From the mountaintops to the midnight cries, this year has been full of blessings and battles—and through it all, I’ve seen God’s hand carry me.
I’m opening up about some of the highs and lows of my 2024 journey: the lessons I learned in the wilderness, the beauty of motherhood, the growth in my faith, and the ways God kept showing up—even in the quiet.
If you’ve been feeling a mix of gratitude and exhaustion at the end of this year, sis… you’re not alone. This conversation is a moment to pause, reflect, and give God glory for what He’s brought us through.
🎉 I’ll also share what I’m celebrating, what I’m believing for in 2025, and how we can continue walking this path of healing and purpose—together.
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Monday Dec 30, 2024
Monday Dec 30, 2024
This episode is personal. As I reflect on the year behind me, I’m reminded that transformation doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from surrendering deeper.
We’re diving into 2 Corinthians 3:18 and the powerful truth that you are being transformed, day by day, to reflect God’s glory. Not because you’ve mastered everything or checked all the boxes—but because His Spirit is alive and at work in you.
I’ll share how I’ve seen His transforming power in my own life this year—through pain, through purpose, through peace I couldn’t explain. And I’ll challenge you to pause and look at how far you’ve come too.
🎧 If you’ve been feeling like you should be further along or more “put together” by now, this is your reminder: you are His reflection in progress.
📓 Plus, I’ll give you a journal prompt to help you acknowledge your growth and keep walking boldly into 2025—reflecting His glory, not your grind.
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
63 | Feeling Off Track? Here’s How to Finish the Year Focused on God, Not Pressure
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Sis, if you’re ending this year feeling tired, behind, or like your goals got derailed—this episode is your reset.
We’re diving into Philippians 3:14 and what it really means to press toward the goal in Christ Jesus. Not in your own strength. Not to please people. But to finish the year with focus, faith, and fire for what God called you to do.
I’ll share how I’ve had to pause, realign, and remind myself that finishing strong doesn’t mean checking off every box—it means staying in step with Him.
We’ll talk about overcoming distractions, releasing guilt, and how to find joy and purpose even if your year didn’t go as planned.
🎯 Let’s shift from pressure to purpose—and walk into the new year with clarity, hope, and holy confidence.
📓 Plus, I’ll leave you with an affirmation and journal prompt to help you realign your heart before the clock strikes midnight.
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
With all the wrapping paper, holiday noise, and pressure to “feel happy,” it’s easy to forget the true reason for the season. But sis… the greatest gift was already given—His name is Jesus.
In today’s devotion, I’m reflecting on Isaiah 9:6 and the powerful truth that Jesus isn’t just a baby in a manger—He’s your Wonderful Counselor, your Mighty God, your Everlasting Father, and your Prince of Peace.
I’ll walk you through how His presence shifts everything, especially when the holiday season feels lonely or heavy. Whether you’re grieving, growing, or simply trying to stay grounded, let this episode remind you that you are deeply loved, chosen, and transformed by the One who came to save the world—and your soul.
🎁 Let’s pause together to honor the gift of Jesus—and declare today’s affirmation: I am deeply loved and transformed by the greatest gift, Jesus Christ.
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Tuesday Dec 24, 2024
Tuesday Dec 24, 2024
There’ve been seasons where I felt completely alone—even when I was surrounded by people. But the promise of Immanuel means this: no matter what we face, God is with us.
In today’s devotion, we’re resting in the truth of Matthew 1:23—Jesus came to dwell among us, to walk with us, and to never leave us. Whether you’re in a season of joy or one of sorrow, His presence hasn’t changed.
I’ll share how I’ve had to cling to this truth in some of my hardest moments, and how God gently reminded me that even when I couldn’t feel Him, He never walked away.
💛 If you’ve been feeling forgotten, lonely, or like God’s been silent—this episode is your reminder: you are seen, loved, and never alone.
✨ Let’s declare today’s affirmation together: I am never alone because God is with me.
Monday Dec 23, 2024
Monday Dec 23, 2024
Let’s be real—it’s easy to get discouraged when the promise feels big but your current assignment feels small. But sis… small doesn’t mean insignificant.
In today’s episode, we’re digging into Luke 16:10 and the truth that God watches how we steward the little things before He releases the big blessings. That means your quiet obedience, your behind-the-scenes service, your “yes” when no one else is watching—it all matters.
I’ll share what I’ve learned about mastering faithfulness in the unseen seasons and how it’s often the preparation ground for elevation.
💫 If you’ve been wondering why the breakthrough hasn’t come or if your consistency is even worth it—this conversation is for you.
🗝️ Let’s talk about how to unlock big blessings by being faithful with what’s already in your hands.
📖 And don’t forget to declare this: I am faithful in the small things, trusting God with the big picture.
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